Emil Harker: How to Confront Someone with Strength and Sensitivity

Emil Harker

(KUTV) Emil Harker visited Fresh Living with tips on how to Confront Someone with Strength and Sensitivity.

The line of the traditional "I feel... when you..., because..." It just doesn't work. Some people avoid bringing things up because they don't want to hurt someone's feelings and some people bring things up and don't care if it hurts someone's feelings.

If you don't share your position, and perspectives we might have peace but we won't have closeness.

Here are tips on how to confront with strength and sensitivity. For example, you have a Mother in law who steps in to discipline your kids even when you are around.

  • Say what is bugging you.
  • "Flip-switch" statement
  • Assume Good Intent
  • Check in.